If someone gives you feedback that you need to “project more confidence” …

Ask them to give you specific examples. 

What EXACTLY do they want you to do differently?  

What is the benefit to the business of you making those changes? 

 Do you agree with...

Managing juniors can be SO annoying. 

• They don’t do what you want them to do. 
• They miss deadlines and prioritise other people’s work.

It feels maddening.

But be careful about what you make all of that MEAN. 

Our brains are always spinning stories. That’s how...

Hey {{first_name}}

Something I hear all the time from my clients is…

“Are you a mind-reader? How do you know exactly what I’m thinking?”

 It’s not magic. I’m not secretly bugging their home.

I know what they’re thinking...

Being a lawyer is hard enough… without having to work for someone who’s reactive, unpredictable or lacking in basic leadership skills. 

If I could wave my magic wand and change them … I would.

In the meantime, here are some tips to help you navigate working with them.

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This is my regular reminder to stop WAITING for confidence.  

You don’t need to feel confident before you: 

• Speak-up in a group meeting
• Take the lead on that next client call
• Put your hand for the new scary opportunity. 

Confidence in doing a specific thing comes AFTER...

Have you ever stood awkwardly in the corner of a networking event, not wanting to interrupt other people’s conversations and wondering about the earliest acceptable time to leave?  

Not that I speak from experience or anything…  

Here are some tips to help:

• Be...

Do you struggle with over-thinking? 

In an industry full of anxious overachievers, you are definitely not alone.  

Here are some quick tips to help:

• Worry Bucket: Schedule 15 minutes later in the day designated just for worrying.  Until then, you’re not allowed to think...

Clients often ask me…

“How do I stop making “silly” mistakes when I’m working late?”

Firstly, just a reminder that you’re HUMAN. Your brain doesn’t function at 100% late at night. It’s NORMAL to make mistakes in those conditions.

Also…...

I used to think that, to feel more confident and stop second-guessing myself, all I needed to do was learn MORE. 

Surely, more knowledge meant less mistakes and tons of confidence… 

Sadly, every year I stepped up a qualification level, which meant that people kept asking me more...

Do you ever lie awake at night worrying about mistakes you might have made… or how to fix a mistake you definitely DID make?  

It’s always worse in the middle of the night. 

You’re too tired to see things objectively, so your worst fears have a party! 

And...